Condoms. Unwrapped. The ins and outs of condoms for gay and bisexual men. Nearly everyone knows that using a latex condom for anal sex (fucking) can greatly reduce the chances of getting - or passing on - HIV (the virus that causes AIDS) and many other sexually transmitted infections (STIs) - like syphilis, gonorrhea or chlamydia. However, there are many things that can affect our ability to use condoms all the time. Do you get nervous when using condoms? Do you have difficulty using condoms? Is it difficult for you to make condoms a part of sex? If so, you might find some interesting stuff in this section of the website.